CHILDREN, YOUTH & THEIR ABUSED
MOTHERS
Removing children who witness domestic violence
from their home is a flawed practice. Doing so on the grounds of
the mother’s “failure to protect” is one more
example of backlash at battered women. Failure to protect implies
having the power to protect. Women in abusive homes are powerless
to stop their own abuse; or to stop their children from witnessing
domestic violence; or to protect them from physical, emotional or
sexual violence at the hands of an abusive father or family member.
Citing a battered women for failure to protect erroneously puts
the onus on her, and none on the batterer. Where do power and powerlessness
rest and shift within an abusive family?
Indeed, there is a responsibility to protect
children in an abusive home. But, how does separating children from
their mother because they have seen her being abused protect them?
It might in fact traumatize them further. Current systems and strategies
are often failing abused mothers and their children. The onus of
protective strategies falls on us, their advocates. So, if we shift
the responsibility onto ourselves; if we begin to examine our failure
to protect; what would interventions - within the family and within
the child welfare system - that simultaneously focus on children,
youth and their abused mothers look like?
How is the practice of removing children affecting
API families? We know that at a minimum it compounds a battered
woman’s shame because she is blamed for the removal of the
children. How should we, as API advocates, approach the issue, at
systemic and familial levels? What interventions protect the child;
protect the mother?
Battered Immigrant, Refugee
and Indigenous Women Involved with CPS
Learning
from the Experiences of Battered Immigrant, Refugee and Indigenous
Women Involved with Child Protective Services to Inform a Dialogue
among Domestic Violence Activists and Advocates.
Report by V. Pualani
Enos
pualanienos@hawaii.rr.com
On behalf of
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REPORT SUMMARY: JULY
2003
Goals
- To share the voices of immigrant, refugee and indigenous women
survivors of intimate partner abuse who have been involved with
child protective services;
- To inform the development of policies, practices and interventions
that will more effectively address the physical, emotional and
spiritual health of individuals, families and communities;
- To learn how CPS and DV can be more responsive to the needs
of families where DV and Child abuse and neglect are present;
- To explore how community (family, friends, neighbors, church,
civic organizations) can be more responsive to partner abuse and
child abuse and neglect and provide support to survivors involved
with CPS; and
- To experiment with a research design that accomplishes the first
step of participatory research and at the same time empowers advocates
and survivors.
Constituency
- 30 immigrant and indigenous women – Brazilian,
Latin American, Vietnamese, Hawaiian and Native American –
currently or previously involved with the child protection system
participated in focus groups in Hawai’i and Massachusetts.
- 18 community researchers recruited participants and conducted
focus groups and translated findings. A special effort was made
to recruit researchers from the same ethnic communities as the
participants were from; some had been involved with CPS as clients
themselves.
- Massachusetts: Three groups conducted in participants’
native languages; one group conducted in English. Most participants
resided in the greater Boston area; some were from central and
southern Massachusetts.
- Hawai’i: Five focus groups of Hawaiian women, including
one Native American, from five of the islands. Groups were conducted
in native language and English.
Project
Design
This social action research project included three
separate methods of information gathering.
- 9 Focus Groups: The majority of effort and time
was devoted to this component of the project. 30 mothers participated
in the groups. 18 Community Researchers facilitated and translated
the groups.
- Surveying Advocates: 74 advocates
and service providers who work with battered immigrant, refugee
and indigenous women completed a written survey to provide context
to the focus group findings.
- Key Informant Interviews: Key informants worked
for systems related to child protection interventions including
CPS staff and supervisors, shelter workers, attorneys, domestic
violence advocates, and family law attorneys.
Key Insights
Defining
Culture And Community:
Many participants did not have a framework for analyzing identity
and place within community unlike those of us who are accustomed
to working cross-culturally and studying cultural competence. Despite
living in richly diverse environments and surrounded by distinct
cultural affiliations, many did not immediately identify as part
of a particular ethnic group.
More than a few of the women identified as having
no affiliation with any community presently or in the past, stating
they felt completely isolated and alone. This they attributed to
growing up in an abusive family, to the isolation resulting from
living with an abusive partner or the stigma associated with CPS
interventions or public assistance programs.
Child Welfare System is
Overwhelming & Confusing:
Participants described feeling
hopeless and overwhelmed because they reported that
- Caseworkers are always changing
the rules and adding more conditions to their promises;
- They are required to complete
an impossible amount of tasks for their service plans;
- Many of the services are
irrelevant to them;
- CPS threatens to take away
their children if they do not file for a restraining order against
their abuser.
Speaking Up:
Providing women with a safe place and time to share their experiences
around CPS served two important purposes. First, many women stated
that sharing in this context was a healing experience. Also, freedom
to talk about abuse and their involvement with CPS amongst others
who were similarly situated allowed participants to critically analyze
their experiences and their effects.
What Family, Friends and Neighbors
Can Do:
Trust in communities and neighborhoods
needs to be restored in order for people to reach out in a domestic
violence or child abuse situation. Participants were reluctant to
rely on community and neighbors, unsure of what they would or could
do to help. More attention needs to be given to help community members
identify ways that they can be helpful. Some ideas shared by women
in the groups include:
- Neighbors could provide respite
and care for children.
- Family and friends can help
women complete different parts of their service plans.
RECOMMENDATIONS
Participants had several suggestions for the child
welfare system:
(1) Treat parents with respect.
- CPS should advise all parents
of their legal rights. CPS should provide paperwork that explains
what is going on.
(2) Improve training of caseworkers and provide
them with support and resources.
- Supervise caseworkers to ensure they are doing
the right things for families. Make sure that caseworkers do not
make big decisions in isolation.
- Provide emotional support for caseworkers.
(3) Hire people who have been through the system
or who have had relevant life experiences.
- Conduct focus groups with women who have been
through CPS so they know what is really needed from the client’s
point of view.
- Ensure that workers who are making decisions about families
respect cultural values.
(4) Do more thorough investigations BEFORE
taking action.
- Take the time to learn about each situation,
don’t make assumptions; don’t take kids away unless
there are no other choices.
(5) Care and learn about
domestic violence.
- Workers should be able to recognize the tactics
used by abusive partners instead of falling for their tricks.
(6) Provide more preventative services before
violence escalates.
- Provide more parenting education, especially
in the home, help people to find ways to meet their basic needs
for food, clothing etc.
(7) Help people who are in trouble rather
than punishing them.
(8) Provide language services for all clients in
all situations where people do not speak English as a first language.
(9) Take the time to learn about cultural contexts
and values.
- Seek out bi-cultural advocates
well trained in domestic violence and child abuse/neglect.
- CPS should recognize that domestic violence happens
in all cultures.
(10) Need to provide better services to children.
- Important to explain to kids what CPS is for.
People need more education about what services are available and
how to get the services. CPS should provide a child with a counselor
who explains why the batterer is doing what he is doing and what
mom needs to do to protect kids.
(11) Find new ways to deal with family abuse that
involve parents and community.
- Have workshops/seminars for the particular ethnic
groups to talk with them about domestic violence and child abuse/neglect
in their community.
- Funding agencies should require that service providers work
with community members to build community driven intervention
and prevention strategies that people believe will work in their
area. People from within communities should be hired to implement
these strategies rather than hiring people who may have higher
educational degrees but have no knowledge about, or investment
in, the community.
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NATIONAL RESOURCES
Family Violence
Prevention Fund: Children’s Programs
http://endabuse.org/programs/children/
National Council of
Juvenile and Family Court Judges:
Green Book Project
http://www.thegreenbook.info/
REPORTS
Crossing the Divide: Asian American Families and
the Child Welfare System (2001). Coalition for Asian American Children
and Families, New York NY
http://www.cacf.org/publications/index.html#crossdivide
Learning from the Experiences of Battered Immigrant
Refugee and Indigenous Women Involved with Child Protective Services
to Inform a Dialogue among Domestic Violence Activists and Advocates
(2003) V. Pualani Enos, Family Violence Prevention Fund, Asian and
Pacific Islander Institute on Domestic Violence.
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